Why do parents and children have problems getting along?
Parent children relationships are very strong. But a parent child relationship changes a lot over a lifespan. As children reach adolescents there is more discomfort. Teenagers push away wanting more freedom and as they start going into high school. Parents get more protective definitely for girls. As a teenage girl my mom doesn't let me do anything without checking on me even if I'm at a friends house and she knows. That's one of the biggest problems I have because it makes me feel like she doesn't trust me. Is that what’s going on with you? If it is just deal with be calm about it and answer your parents questions. I know that sound hard I'm not good at that either I usually get mad then get in trouble. But when I just answer questions calmly I don't have any problems. I found a website that talks about a parent child relationship. It talks about if parents nurture, support and guide their children's development. The parent child relationship evolves as the child get older into adulthood, and the roles may switch as the elderly parents need help the child will support and care for their adult children. This site may be helpful for new parents that want to know what will happen if they spoil or are to strict on there child. Because it has that kind of research on it.
This is so true. Both my parents never let me go anywhere unless I tell them with who, where I'm going, when I'll be back, and if they know the people. That sometimes get me very mad but like you said if you answer clamly they well most likely let you go.
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